what if?????

hahaha...dats da ques..what if??? vemal asked wat if he din rush me in2 giving an ans...mayb he should hv ask me out more often den oni ask me....bt i tink da ans wil act b da same....i tink....haizzzz....jz read da bulletin posted by sukvin....true oso wat it says....

The Mysterious Thing Called LOVE ...

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return, do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you,
and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you,
and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go.
There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time .
Remember that you don't choose love.
Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.
Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools,
they revert to seeing their love as need.
They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.
Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love has always been and will always be a mystery.
Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.

me n siti was again toking bt her again...haizzz..sometimes realy cant stand her...bt jz so b it lar......treasure da frenship i gt...she is a vry nice gal act...jz at times duno wat she tinking oni....den 2dy had da meeting...in da end we refund 2 everybody...gt an invitation 2 khasturi's housewarming oso...cc hw i gona go...hv 2 share da invitation wit vemal...hahaha...den me vemal abel n pj went lunch in jusco station kopitiam...realy had lots of joke n dirty topics....damn funny when abel was so sked 2 b in vemal's car....hahahahaha....gud 2 hv fun ldt....hehehe...enjoying every second i hv....den gt period somemore...haizzz..kena da pants oso...den abit of stomachache lar...beta nw...den jinyi called sud 2 ask wat happen 2 yi lee on 10 of sept laz year....sure i cant rem lar....duno wat is it...mayb later gona ask him...2 tired d 2dy...no strength 2 go 4 dance clas oso...jz slp n getting headache duno from con or nt enuf slp...tired day realy....